Best Ways to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – 3 Great Ways
OK, I know you are feeling a little desperate. You’re probably looking for the magic words that will fix the biggest mistake of your life. You don’t want to lose all of the time that you have invested in the relationship..err…EX relationship.
What are the magic words, what are the best ways to get ex girlfriend back? Are there things to say to your girlfriend to get her back?
Of course, there are lots of ways, there are tons of things that you can do and say and here we will talk about the best ways to get ex girlfriend back.
Without knowing all of the gory details about WHY she is your ex, we are just going to stick to a few basic principles.
1. Most break ups happen because someone feels misunderstood.
2. Break ups happen because someone did something stupid, wrong or hurtful (and hopefully not all three at the same time!).
3. Someone has already moved on.
For the sake of arguing, let’s say that YOU don’t feel any way that we mentioned above, let’s say your EX feels one or even all three of the above.
So, what are the best ways to get your ex girlfriend back?
For point number one, trying saying this: “I want to understand how you feel. Can you explain in to me so that I can understand you?” Often, this opens up the door to a conversation, which many times is what a women want s to hear. Additionally, as preventative medicine, you should probably try saying the above statement at least once a week!
For point number two, the best thing to say to get your ex girl friend back is this “I am so sorry. I was stupid. That was dumb. There is no excuse for ***.” Taking 100% of the responsibility is KEY here. No matter what the situation, there is SOMETHING that you are truly, 100% sorry for. Even though you may feel that the blame is mutual, that is method NOT on the list of the best ways to get ex girlfriend back. Just keep what you are truly sorry for in mind when you apologize. In fact, by putting the blame on her, your likely to just reinforce her choice to leave!
For point number three, the best thing, may the only thing that you can do is to bring up the good times that you had in the past, as many as you can (Matt Huston gives a lot of good examples that you should try in his EX2 System guide). Its also helpful if you can remind her of future goals and things that you had planned together at one time. Awakening sentiment may cause her to miss you and cause her to come back.
Keep in mind that forcing her return will only drive her farther away. You can’t force anyone to do anything. You can only persuade and hope they want to follow.
Be sincere, and let your apologies (if necessary!) ring true!
I hope that this post on the best ways to get your ex girlfriend back will truly help you to get her back soon.
Stay tuned for more great advice in my next post!