Text Messages To Get Her AttentionHey guys

Last time I mentioned some tips on how to make your ex want you again and today I want to focus on text messaging and how it can help you to get her attention fast.

You’d probably be amazed at the number of people that are searching for ways to ignite that spark in the opposite sex.

While the goal is as old as time, the methods have changed a bit. It’s pretty common now to use text messages to get her attention. Long, drawn out courtships have completely disappeared, in fact, I’d bet quite a lot of money that you don’t even know what courtship means! (Ha ha! It means dating!)

Texting is the new speed dating and it’s got a few challenges, one of them being 160 characters! This gives you literally like 2 seconds to make an impression and to attract her attention.

Can it be done?

Yes, some people can do it. But what you really want to know is can YOU do it? Can YOU successfully use text messages to get her attention, win her over and score a date (or more!) with her? If you listen to me, your chances will improve greatly!

The first step to awesome text messages to get her attention is to stand out from the crowd! Delete all ‘Hey,’ ‘what’s up,’ and ‘remember me?’ texts from your brain right now. These are boring and will NOT attract her, in fact, they will most likely repel her.

Your opening line will determine whether or not you are going to get a second chance for a second text, so you’d better make it exciting. Here are a couple of ideas to get your brain thinking:


  • “I heard that the circus is in town and I need a reference to apply, can you help?”
  • “I am thinking of becoming a comedian, can you listen to a few of my chicken jokes?”
  • “I’d really like to eat some frog legs, but I can’t stand the thought of all of those frogs in wheel chairs!”


OK. So you get the point, the more bizarre and funny the more of her attention you are likely to grab! Get creative and have fun with your messages.

After you come up with an attention grabbing text, save it to use on future girls that you meet!

Remember that you are looking for a unique statement that combines fun and crazy all together. You’re goal is to make her smile and want to respond back. Everybody likes to feel like they can help, so ask for her help, as we see in the circus referral line!

You also need to keep in mind your timing. The day after you meet a girl is the perfect time to send her text messages to get her attention. This is the old ‘strike while the iron is hot’ method.

Funky invitations can also help you to stand out and help get her attention. My personal favorite is the good old “I need help planning my St. Patty’s Day costume. Can you help me?”

I hope these few ideas help you to figure out what kind of text messages to get her attention! Just remember to distinguish yourself from the masses of other guys, make her laugh and invite her to help you with a very urgent task!

For more ideas on useful text messages that can help you get her attention and turn her on check this great system. You can also check the short video below for other free tips and advice.

I wish you the best and hope to see you here again soon!