Happy woman embracing manThis subject of how to make your ex want you again is actually fairly easy! Doesn’t that make you jump for joy? It should, because all you need to do is apply these few tips and you’ll make your ex’s eyes shine for you all over again!

For the sake of simplicity, I’m going to assume that you didn’t commit any major faux pas, that is, any major violation of your ex’s trust or moral value. I’ll just assume that you broke up over life in general or one of life’s common road bumps. Stay tuned for another post that will deal with how to save a relationship after cheating. For now, we’ll get right down to the basics of how to make your ex want you again.

The first thing to remember is that love is an emotion and it’s almost never based on logic or reason. Sometimes reason can even get in the way of love! So, remember that the answer to how to make your ex want you again is not based on reason, but rather on pure emotion.

The human brain is really amazing. After all, what is an emotion? How does the brain tell you how to feel? What is the difference between anger and love? The answer lies in a brain code called sub modalities, which I will not explain in much depth in this post.

In short, a sub modality tells us how to feel. Its like a category of code. This code is always the same, however the subject of the code can be categorized differently fairly easily.

So, if your brain code for what you love is ‘123’ and your code for disdain is ‘987,’ you can imagine these codes like buckets and the objects of the buckets can be shifted, either at will or by accident. This brain ‘code’ is the key element of how to make your ex want you again.

At one time, YOU were in your ex’s ‘want’ bucket, along with perhaps chocolate and a few other items. Somehow, your ex put you in a different ‘bucket,’ causing their brain to tell them to feel differently.

This is how to make your ex want you again.

In private, remember a time that your ex was super hot over you. Try to remember this in as much detail as possible. Take notes if you need to.

Then you need to talk to your ex. In person is best, but on the phone will work. As you talk, spend about 3-5 minutes describing the memory. Be very careful to keep this a neutral memory! Do NOT add why it was great for YOU! The point of this exercise is for your ex to access THEIR brain code for desire. You don’t know what exactly it is, so keep to physical aspects, the lighting, the surroundings, the context as much as possible.

After 3-5 minutes, ask your ex to imagine that they still felt like that NOW. This will cause a blink of recoding. You then ask them to imagine that they still felt like that a week from now.

This tip for how to make your ex want you again is just the tip of the iceberg, I have tons more! So stay tuned to future posts!

Hope to see your here again soon and thanks for the visit…

Lok